Every one has issues and many people exhibit some of these behaviors some of the time. What constitutes a problem is if you see or experience several of these behaviors, especially if they last over a period of time. When in doubt, ask a professional for an evaluation.
Note to parents: Consider that what we think of as ‘normal’ teenage behavior, may not be normal at all.
Do not wait for your child to ‘get over it’.
If a counselor cannot see you in a reasonable time period, ask for a referral.
IF YOU THINK YOUR CHILD IS SUICIDAL, DON’T DELAY.
Call 911 or take them to the emergency room for an evaluation.
Signs of Depression
- outbursts of irritability or anger
- uneven academic performance/’’not living up to potential”
- sleeping more /or less
- changes in behavior/friends
- loss of interest in activities
- giving away personal possessions
- giving up activities/things that are important to the person
- hopelessness “It doesn’t matter”, “I don’t care”
Risk Factors/Behaviors
- stressful life event or loss
- anniversary of traumatic events
- loss of loved one/important relationship
- sudden improvement in outlook or behavior, as if all problems have suddenly resolved themselves (it may mean they are relieved because they have made the decision to end their life) (Some therapists say that when the warm weather comes and life is renewing itself, someone suffering from depression may feel more at odds with the world and those around them who are enjoying the good weather and heightened activities).
- Depression/untreated or undertreated
- History of previous suicide attempts
- Family history of suicide
- History of depression or other mental illness
- Access to lethal methods (nearly 60% involve use of firearms)
- Exposure to the suicidal behavior of other
- alcohol or drug abuse
- financial loss
- troubled home life
- hopelessness
Stressors
- loss of a loved one
- breaking up with girlfriend/boyfriend
- financial loss
- divorce or trouble at home